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Loosen Up!

“Life has many options, you DON'T have to always pick what seems to be the BEST, just pick whatever makes you HAPPY.”


Most often we always tend to choose what we think is the BEST without considering our feelings, that if it fails to be one,we don’t admit it, we always regret.  Despite several life’s optionsat hand, still a greater chances of getting lost in the end because we oftentimes complicate simple things.


Loosen up. It’s like when you’ve always wanted to lose weight, eat the right food, skip meals as if you’re going to get an award if you lose weight but you have to be happy and satisfied with the results. If you’re a photo blogger, gather your best shots, put them together and submit them in a contest.  If you look good and you speak well, join a competition and see how you do.  You may not get the top prize, you may not be the BEST, but think how much you learn and experience just by showing your conviction compounded with happiness.  Satisfaction is happiness.


The best options may be a course of action we take each day, by doing such littleexperiments or trying simple things that can help us improve on choosing what really the BEST is.


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  1. BMMay 22, 2011 at 4:00 AM

    and if you’ve always wanted to write, then write something like this..haha..nice one ‘tol.

    BM says that the best option is keeping at what’s we want to do.

    pahiram nga ng bolang de colores, tsaka nong eroplano doon sa taas, idadadag ko sa collections ko, makakasakay din ako dyan haha. taragis! astig ng bagong header.

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  2. TsiremoMay 22, 2011 at 4:29 AM

    Nakaka relate ako dito! Kaya I took time para makapag-isip! Ayoko i-elaborate pero tapos na yung meditation mode ko and im now happy! Yehey! Ganda ng customization mo sa theme na to ah. Gusto ko sana eh pwede pagaya ng theme?

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  3. dukingMay 22, 2011 at 4:38 AM

    hahaha! advice ng zen master!

    tol bon, nabasa ko yung featured article ng damuhan. ibang klase ka talaga, hehe!

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  4. BinoMay 22, 2011 at 4:51 AM

    with a post like this, you definitely inspired other people to strive harder and go for the best! napa-english tuloy ako hehehehe lels

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  5. YanahMay 22, 2011 at 7:37 AM

    there's always room for improvement yun eh kung gugustuhin lang natin. its just a matter of looking things in a different perspective, one that would suit u best.

    ang ganda ng bagong pintang bahay!

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  6. meliza catedralMay 22, 2011 at 7:48 AM

    nice post bon..nkkainspire ang iyong sinulat... bagonglipat ka ba ng bahay mo.. ffull furnish na talaga..lels....pangmayaman ang bahay ng blog mo at sosyal... well keep it up bonskie

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  7. BONMay 22, 2011 at 10:05 AM

    haha, thanks BM, natawa ko sa eroplano.. ang dami mo ng bansang napuntahan pero sa middle east dika pa nakatungtong! =) well, lapit na! and I wish you the best of luck and more blessings from Him!

    ... and you're right. i should write more often. ^^

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  8. BONMay 22, 2011 at 10:09 AM

    thanks Tsi. minsan kailangan nating huminto sa lahat ng bagay para mabigyan ng oras ang sarili natin. makapagpahinga.. =) and it will refresh everything.. it will give enough strength to fight for more!

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  9. BONMay 22, 2011 at 10:11 AM

    agree! =) thanks yanah!! keep looking on the brighter side of life!

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  10. BONMay 22, 2011 at 10:12 AM

    Thank You Mhel! haha pang mayaman!? ^^ para sa mga mayayamang visitors tulad nyo! hahaha

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  11. BONMay 22, 2011 at 1:14 PM

    salamat duking! =) haha ang damuhan.com ang ibang klase! magaling magtanong eh! nyahaha

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  12. BONMay 22, 2011 at 1:15 PM

    nyahaha thanks arvin, kala ko sasabihin mo "you should post more often." =)

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  13. LeahMay 23, 2011 at 5:47 AM

    Wow. Nakarelate ako.. hmm.. Life is indeed full of options. And the decision to choose one is entirely up to us. Mahirap nga lang talaga minsan pumili.. sa nasabi mo nga, "we oftentimes complicate simple things.".

    New look ang blog ah. :)

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  14. salbeheMay 23, 2011 at 10:28 PM

    Uy! Every two months ka na ngayon nag-u-update dito. Improving!

    At hindi ka na nag-eedit ng koment, diretso reply comment ka na.

    Dun naman sa mga sinabi mo... K.

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  15. BONMay 24, 2011 at 1:34 AM

    wahaha. ewan! ^^

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  16. BONMay 24, 2011 at 1:35 AM

    Thanks Leah! ^^

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  17. senior khobarianMay 27, 2011 at 10:57 AM

    amen!

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  18. katrindanielesJune 26, 2011 at 10:13 PM

    nagbabasa ako ng mga post mo kuya bon pero di ako nagcocomment kasi nahiya akong mag-english. hahah.
    hmmm, may mga bagay na mananatiling pangarap hangga't di natin sinusubukang abutin 'to. =) ayon nga kay Ginoong Richard Eyre: I realized that there are always 2 goals. One is to get there, and the other is to enjoy the journey. Too much emphasis on one can ruin the other. =) hindi ko alam kong may connect,maka-english lang. hahah

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    Bons: salamat kat, di naman po kailangan mag english.. at an giyong pagdaan dito ay isang kasiyahan na para sa akin (naks) Enjoy your journey! life is indeed beautiful! ^^

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  19. Diamond RJuly 31, 2011 at 7:10 AM

    Ikaw lang talaga ang magdedecide ko ano ang gusto mo. You just have to let go.
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    Bons: tama ka po dyan rommel, at salamat sa pagbisita! ^^

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  20. sphereqMarch 25, 2012 at 12:46 PM

    so repost repost na lang tlaga ang labanan ngayon hahaha

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  21. BONMarch 25, 2012 at 12:48 PM

    oo, haha walang bago eh! ^^

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  22. migstartvApril 27, 2012 at 11:29 PM

    nice bro!!!! nakakainspired!!!
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    Bons: thanks dude!

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  23. yhenMay 15, 2012 at 7:50 PM

    Thanks for this Kuya Boni.

    Now, I need to loosen up. That's the THING! :D
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    Bons: thanks too!~ ^_^

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